Liking Somone

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thoughts for your thoughts...


When one likes someone, does the other person (the person you like) have the right to know?
Is the right for the person being crushed on existent at all?

If only we go back to being children, in the sense that we are honest.
Each of us freely saying and showing to others what and how we truly feel.
It is sad how a crush only remains as a crush, it will indeed be heart-crushing.
There are those who love, love even when the love they give is not reciprocated.
Not because the other does not love at all, simply because they are unaware,
or perhaps you are just not too obvious with how you feel.

To the crushee, this "hidden agenda" of yours may go unnoticed, or it may even be just annoying to them.
You may act in certain ways that doesn't makes sense to the crushee since they do not know how the
crusher is feeling.

There is a sad reality in this whole "Crush" thing that usually goes unnoticed.
There are those crushes that will always stay in your heart, engraved, and forever unmoved.
The crusher is left with wondering what could have been, if only.  Yes, if only.
And to the crushee, all these will make no sense, all these makes no difference.
Maybe the crushee has no idea at all what it was about the crusher, him/her acting the way he/she did.
Or maybe the crushee too, will forever wonder what might have happened if only the truth was told.
Maybe he/she (most likely she) was just waiting... waiting for something to be said.
Would it have been the two them together?  Would it have been that they'll be in a wonderful relationship?
Yes, because what if the crushee is also crushing on the crush!
omG! What have you guys done?!!

Leaving things in silence, unspoken, unmoved, and left behind.
All that's left for both of you is to wonder.
Wondering is all you'll have, and sadly, maybe even some regret.
This "wondering" might haunt you up to the day that you are with another,
maybe up to when you are married and with kids already.
You will just wonder.
Could it have been the crushee just needed someone to help him/her realize?
Could it have been the crusher and the crushee together?
Could it have been them if only one of them would have said something sooner? 

We can only wonder.  No one can really tell...

Oh well, that's life~